"The most difficult phase in life is not when no one understand you,
but when you don't understand yourself.."
This is my favourite quote of all.. the meaning is very clear.. like it says, it's not when no one don't understand you but when you don't understand yourself, that is the most difficult time in life because only you yourself can change your life..
But what happen when you DO understand yourself but you didn't take the initiative to change you or face your problems?
That's when everything in your life goes awry and disastrous..
"To relate is to react. To react is to understand oneself. To understand oneself is to be enlightened. Relationships are school for enlightenment." (Anthony De Mello)
So to say, unless you understand yourself and solve your problems, you shouldn't show yourself to the world.. not even to the one you loved..
There is nothing wrong with imitating a person as long as it's to find who you really are.